Purewick delivery showed up today from a Sunday order. First order of business at the home was get it operational again while cleaning mother up. Father didn’t give her pain meds prior to the procedure. We had to deal with the “my back hurts,” “something is here or here on my back stabbing me,” and the general appreciation/bitching of getting the bed and body cleaned again.
Aimee and I are exhausted from the nursing job we have to perform every night with the two of them, bless their souls.
Ya’ll enjoy the time with your parents even if it’s this “stuff” too.
Viva Anne Deaton Saunders (Jones) – Celebration of life November 16, 2025
Viva Anne Deaton Saunders (Jones). 82. of Murrells Inlet, S.C., passed away peacefully at her home on October 31. 2025. She was born or November 18, 1942, in Troy, N.C., to Ernest Lee Deaton Sr. and Maddie Viva Deaton of Troy.
Viva is survived by her daughter, Aimee Cochran. and her husband, Daniel; two grandchildren, Christopher Cochran and his wife. Elizabeth of Murrells Inlet. SC Ashley Aldridge and her husband, Jacob, of Denver Colorado.
Viva retired from North Carolina State University as the head of Admissions and was part owner of Cary Art and Frame in Cary, N.C.
She loved taking long walks on the beach, collecting seashells. shark teeth. and sea glass along the way.
A Service of Celebration will be held at 3:00 p.m. or Saturday, November 15, at First Wesleyan Church in Troy, N.C
Aimee and I visited with Mc Millan-Small Funeral Home today at the early bloody hour of 9am after 72 hours of limited sleep so that the final arrangements of Viva Anne Deaton Saunders (Jones) could be completed. They were “short staffed” and thus Aimee couldn’t see her mother for the final times prior to the service.
The first cousin in Troy, North Carolina we just got to know in the last couple of years, surprisingly, is setting up a service without any input from Aimee the ONLY living family member. This “kind-hearted” help, unrequested and partly needed, is over fucking stepping their bounds by miles. This isn’t the first time this person that has appeared out of no where after knowing the Deaton, Saunders and Jones for well over 40 years wants to control what the heck is the the “end-of-life” for Aimee and Viva’s time on Earth? That my friend is a major, WTF – BTFO Please!
*faceplam* Today was a real event to thank God for his guidance if we just “go with the flow” (aka “The Woodstock Way”). It drives father nuts to operate in such a fashion for day to day living. Although, he operates in such fashion expecting the flow to go the same path day to day which just doesn’t happen. At 85 you would expect him to have learned this fact of life. But, “No this so-n-so will happen with these results that we don’t want ever…”
I am so glad God put me in the computer field in 1982. I’ve not been the nicest with humans since entering the “On/Off” world of logic when people I am working with cannot grasp wtf I am building in the air with words prior to coding and/or action items. Therefore, working with a fellow that had trouble putting together bicycles on Christmas gift time many decades ago. I on the other hand loved building the “toys” we were giving my younger brothers and myself *wink*.
The post have been light the last months due to the fact that I can’t write the way I used to write in my younger days. I forget. You’ll get there too if lucky to live long enough. Lord, we are all around it. Walk into a room and ask yourself, “What did I come in here for now?” Add alcholhol or smoke and it’s much worst, “Why am I getting off this train in Lost Springs, Wyoming?” With this said, it gets late when I can write and I may be ‘pain-free’ at that point of the day.
Viva has been accepted and beginning Hospice Care by Lower Cape Fear LifeCare ™ today, Praise God. The internal issues are many. ‘naugh said.
Mother, may/may not get an initial visit this Friday. *prayers*
September isn’t a good month for me. Sorry for no post to speak of apparently.
Which only brings up a song about the joys of September, just not this 2025 September. Now don’t listen to this while driving in heavy traffic it’ll drive ya nuts to not smash the accelerator to 120.
Mind your own bloody ass business! 203 days ago, but who’s counting?
Dixie Chicken (circa 1976)
We were 12 and 9 with the 2 yr old in tow everywhere. I found this group a couple years later from my “older sister” Linda, now Lynday, who was married to David at that point. That and the fact Capital Records record promo for 10 for $1 (and then the fine print a monthly album that was twice the cost of getting one at the store two miles away). *snicker* My brother only got 57 years because the D.C. (Den of Corruption) and Demoncrat Governor of Virginia with Dr. Anthony Fauci leading the pack at $600,000+ annual tax dollars to murder as many citizens of the World as they can get away with and still get the same pay for life.
I really should add to this as the day progresses as to the recap. I’m more of a “on-the-fly” kinda fellow not a Mr. Recap. Sorry you miss most the humor in this format. Like the cloud formations tonight at sunset. One in particular looked like a dog with another sniffing it’s butt which cracked me the heck up since that is all I see all day with a female, male, and son pack at the house which our cat has decided is ok to hang/join with in the backyard.
Sleep well young princess.
The agenda for our parents as rather active today.
October 5, 2021: Moving to Harrisonburg, Virginia, United States after Fauci murdered him with mandatory injection of a poison that Fauci made money off of with more sales to the tune of millions to murder citizens. He and I pushed on into the night with the off-load of his family’s home items. Now granted a chunk of it was left in the basement staging area for “approval of placement” later from my sister-in-law (wife), Tracey.
I do not think that those folks who caused his death will ever see justice in the United States of America because Satan rules the Earth right now. In the end, justice will be served.
We’ve had a rather busy week so the post have been ‘wanting’ for a while, sorry ya’ll. I took the easy-way out this week on one meal that made lunch and late-night snack too. The famed “hamburger helper.”
Dinner of “Hamburger Helper”
On Tuesday I had to take the afternoon off so I could get the healthcare information 1st hand. My father, God bless him, is 85 and it is kinda showing in that he isn’t as sharp as he was when I was a child. I hear all the “bitching” but none of the solutions or suggestions when I depend on his healthcare reports with appointments, phone calls, but emails I can access we just have NONE from these new groups. Only driving me more ‘crazy.’
August 26, 2025 Healthcare Appointments
In 12 (twelve) more days it would be Timothy’s 58th birthday, again – not that anyone is counting. *cries*
“Pain! Pain means you’re alive boy! Now get the f**k up and keep moving maggot,” Marine leader of past days. Decades before the Obama “pansies” appeared. Learn it, Love it, and Live it!
