2025 05 08 – A Day in the Life

Colossians 4:5-6 (New King James Version)

Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.

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Up before the break of dawn to let the dogs out back with the cat as I drink that first cup of coffee.

Second cup of coffee as we watch the 06:30 school bus drive by our house to take the elementary children off to their school. Check the weather for the day to see if leaving the dog food out of the shed is ok for the next 14 hrs.

Third cup was still outside enjoying the sunrise that is unseen from the backyard, but the sky has lite up and the roar from Hwy 501 and East Cox Ferry Road traffic hides the birds’ calls.

Work – you are not allowed as an employee to mention anything of the campus without censorship less you are fired. Class of 2025’s final day.

Aimee has to leave to live with her mother again due to the hospital (for profit – could give a rat’s arse about the patients) needing the bed from a 80+ year old woman that has had two botched operations and another fall and break of her right hip. Aimee is her slave at the house where there are no witnesses to Viva’s actions, treatment, and 24/7/365 abuse of Aimee verbal and mental. Oh and the mother has no problems calling the police (via 911) that she is in fear of her life from the intruder (her only child) that is not aiding her every wish and whim. Seems we cannot get any nursing/care service to work with Viva due to everyone refusing to work with her. Is she thankful for the sacrifice of Aimee and I? That’s a “FUCK NO!”

I walked into the house that used to be our rest and refuse from the cruel world to step into a men’s urinal hosted by a bus stations in the deep South mid-Summer heat and humidity. They do not smell it here anymore than they smelled it in the dungeon we got them to move out of. I haven’t even gotten through the doorway with the night’s groceries and Father is asking if I have clippers to cut the 1/4″ of hair on the back of his neck that has been a MAJOR point of contention these last 3 days. “Here, let me go get that one for you,” with groceries in hand I head into the bedroom, and into the master bathroom grabbing the clippers from under the sink. I’ve learned since they showed up at Christmas that when Father has his mind on something – to hell with everything else in the world. It’s just easier to take care of the matter you can and move on with your life.

The funny is when I handed him the clippers he asked, “are they electric or battery?”

I replied, “no these are gas powered super clippers,” with a smirk on my face which was replied to with a smirk of “smartass” from Father. He claimed, “its a legit question,” to which we both smile and moved on. Now would I give you a tool that wasn’t working without fixing it? Oh the confidence shown.

Night’s young and I’ma close this here.

God bless

2025 04 01 – A Day in the Life: F8822

F8822

​[SCENE ONE]

Ohmygoodness walk in the door:
(Older Gentleman comes out of bedroom where he was napping. Slinks over to backdoor, taps quietly on the door, Jack is alerted and runs for the door, we cannot see who opens the backdoor a tiny bit for his “buddy” to dash in the doorway.) 
(Rain Clouds cover the shining Sunlight causing the backyard to darken)
(Daniel, Einstein, Maggie, and Luci come inside the house) 
“DID YOU SEE THIS PIECE OF MAIL THAT CAME TODAY,” demands the older gentleman holding the letter from the IRS Daniel put on the counter after coming in the door from work prior to going outside?!? 

“Dude you don’t have to yell. Let me go to the bathroom and we can fix/address/discuss that letter. That’s why I asked you about it in my head bringing it home,” Daniel exclaims.
(Daniel exits Stage Left – Older Gentleman walks off Right Stage)

(Daniel knocks on closed door in the hallway)
“Hey, you awake? Let’s talk,” Daniel states as he opens the door to see the Older Gentleman laying on the bed with the IRS envelope in his hand and Jack staring at the open doorway.

[Dining Room/Computer Office]
“Did you see this,” Older Gentleman inquires.

“I didn’t open it you did, but yeah I was wondering what it was about,” says Daniel.

“There was a $137 mistake on the filing,” the Older Gentleman began, “and they are going to send a refund. THIS ADDRESS IS WRONG! THE . . .”

“Whoa a sec, let me show you this,” interupting is Daniel as he reaches across the seated fellow and grabs the computer mouse, clicks on a window on the screen, and releases the device as he stands up. “See that 1040? This is the address we used to file your taxes and the Social Security changes have not been acknowledged yet, and I’ve told you since Friday it’s getting near the end of the 30 day window to get the mail that I’m hoping the USPS forwards, but the Social Security may have it marked, ‘NO FORWARD,’ I have no idea since we didn’t have to alert the government all the times we have moved in the past.”

“I’m going to miss any $10,000 check they may send me without my address changed,” the Older Gentleman explains. 

With irritation beginning to show on Daniel’s face, he states, “We’ll get the address changed and the USPS will bloody forward the damn mail for at least six months.” 

(The Older Gentleman arises, and exits Stage Right in a “huff”.)

[ENDS SCENE ONE]

[SCENE TWO]

(Zooming in from behind on the left handed side of Daniel facing the 36′ monitor with an IRS Form 8822 .pdf in clear vision. Within the boxes on the .pdf we see the names, Daniel’s head blocks the SSN fields, the old address and the new address boxes filled out.)

“CAN YOU COME AND PROOF THIS 8822 ‘CHANGE OF ADDRESS’ IRS FORM,” Daniel yells?

(door opens off Stage Right)
“This will be the wrong form, or you picked the wrong one,” the Older Gentleman gruffly says as he walks over to the computer and sits down in the chair in front of the monitor. 

As the Older Gentleman reads the 8822 .pdf form on the monitor, he excitedly complains, “my Social Security Number is wrong it’s not 88888!”

Looking at the monitor as he reaches for the mouse to move the cursor to the field boxes the view of the numbers other than the offending ‘88888’ are blocked, “oh my ‘8’ button was sticking there a second.”

Opening another pdf in another window, Daniel says, “Look here it’s fixed.” 
“DON’T CLOSE IT I’VE NOT FINISHED,” the Older Gentleman snarkingly blurts out.

“LOOK YOU CAN STOP BITCHING TO ME, I’M FUCKING GETTING THIS DONE ASAP,” lowering his tone Daniel continues, “just as I’ve done every request since December. I come in and (swiftly kicking into the air) WHAM another kick-in-the-balls to get shit done!”

[END SCENE TWO]

[SCENE THREE]

“Well there you go! THANK YOU SO MUCH MR.Computer Expert,” emfactacly stated by the Older Gentleman as he gets up from the computer and exits Stage Right. Trailing off we don’t understanding what he is saying exiting the Stage, “murmur (etc).” 

(Older lady suffles onto Stage Right and continues toward the recliner chair facing the television (aka “Smart TV”) and sits down to watch “Dancing in the Rain” on TCM on the wide screen above the fireplace)

“HaHaHaHaHaaHaa…” 
(Camera pans back fading to black as “It’s a Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World” plays on the television and the Older Lady laughs hysterically.

​God bless

2025 03 27 – A Day in the Life

I miss my brother.


Went to lunch today with the “boy” (that are grown men now). We enjoyed El Patio’s on Hwy 501 S. They talked of “Eskimo Brothers” and “Alabama Anger (somethings)” only puke worthy conversation imho. You do not want to look those up on “Urban Dictionary.” Yep these are our well paid professionals.

I actually finished lunch first for the first time in ages. I had nothing to bring to this conversation, which I guess is the point of having me along on a lunching. I’m not too much fun to bring to anything anymore.

Mother and Father take most of the evening now. My wife is separated from me to take care of her “needy bitch-from-hell.”

Fuck this is depressing to even type.

God bless.

2025 03 13 A Day in the Life

October 2021 Timothy V. Cochran Move Day – Two brothers together

1:58 is a spot of Timothy

There will be a much more updated video history coming soon. I’ve got to edit/upload them then post.

Timothy and family were moving to a new gig more Northwest from this ‘ole farm house. The pasture surrounding had cows and horses. Timothy told me the girls would fee them through the fence and got a hoot out of it. I know what that’s like.

This was all when Timothy and Tracey were just getting the lowdown and practices of home schooling their children. The girls are so blessed for all that dedication. Of note, Timothy seemed to never stop amazing me on the fabulous places he and Tracey found for the family.

God bless

2025 03 12 A Day in the Life

Lost Box by Amanda McKinnon 2024 @ Coastal Carolina University

The first Monday back on February 24, 2025 after my brother’s untimely death, I saw this art display on my walk to the Athletic Ticketing Office. I was in route to catch up on a few projects we are in the planning stages of the the 2025/2026 academic year.

It is Spring break for the students and faculty this week. The campus is very busy doing all the task we cannot get done while the clients are on campus. It is a peaceful time.

This display was a real message from God to me on that day saying, hey others are out there hurting just as much. This I know, but sometimes you feel you are the only person hurting/missing someone or something in the world.

Posted on my whiteboard at my desk that is read daily, Joshua 1:9 (NKJV)
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”

God bless!

2025 03 10 A Day in the Life

Day 28 Flower Display February 10, 2025 Lexington, Virginia
Flower Display for Celebration of Life of Timothy Virgil Cochran son of William Stephen Cochran, and Family on February 22, 2025

As we go into the first month anniversary of the loss of our major love-one in our short time here on Earth, I watch the flowers grow weaker and weaker at holding their pettles in some cases. In other cases, the flowers are just closing up with time. The evergreens are still holding on strong to the memory.

God bless

Screen Capture February 10, 2025 10:15 – Passed 13:01

The verse that day was:
Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1Cor.13.1-1Cor.13.3&version=NKJV

2025 03 05-06 A Day in the Life

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PqccEpqvwPY Take it to the Limit Eagles Live 1977 (Timothy was 10)

It’s only been 28 days. I can’t believe/accept the reality that my best friend and only real friend has left me. It so fucking hurts.

He’s got a lock on the 10th of the month the rest of my life, at this point.

I was walking across campus and found this treasure from God to me via one of the Arts students similar to Ashley. (zoom in to read)

So pray for our family all three branches. In the last six months our family has taken a 90, 70+, 60+ hit to each unit but the main center has taken over a 100 impact.

Timothy’s flowers day 29

BTW: 3 out of 4 voted MAGA in November and actually 2 more I can name so sorry we are feeling the pain of the Demoncraptic Party with their buddies (RINOs much like Sen. Mitch McConnell and Lindsey Graham.

2025 03 03 (Monday) A Day in the Life

Got to the doctor. $100 later after about 5 minutes, I had three prescriptions ordered at the pharmacy. *cheers*

The fires on International Drive have caused it to be closed to through traffic. Gee East Cox Ferry didn’t get any additional traffic due to the only cut through to Carolina Forest and/or Hwy 501? Ohmygoodness

Dad’s happy the taxes are done. Good for him. Mom just figured out they have been here for three months now (well almost but by name sure). An hour later, not a bit about it. *sigh & cry*

The technical issue at work that has hung on way too long, appears to have been fixed. We’ll know for sure in the morning. That’s a lot of data to move after this delay. *Praise the Lord*

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